tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78196894424594640322024-03-13T16:49:33.073+00:00the cerebral palsy blog Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.comBlogger56125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-31474672898622849402017-03-09T16:35:00.001+00:002017-03-09T16:35:15.724+00:00Dear you<div class="adn ads" style="background-color: white; border-left: 1px solid transparent; color: #222222; padding-bottom: 20px; padding-left: 8px;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I hope you don't mind me writing, (haha - see what I did there? yup, I'll leave now) I want to thank you. I saw you at the Leadmill. Y'know Ruthie with sparkle-y cast? Yeah anyway, I just want to express my appreciation.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">First off, you smashed it last night, granted I couldn't really see ya, you sounded great! The atmosphere was incredible and the mix of songs from all three albums was utterly sensational (as ever, I'll add). I really don't know how you get better every time I come to see you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I took my mum for the first time. She's also physically disabled and is in a wheelchair. She hasn't been to a gig in ages and to be honest she was pretty nervous of the crowds. I think, along with everyone else there, she had a blast!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Like I said she really doesn't like crowds, incase she gets knocked or something, pretty reasonable but I told her most sprags are really understanding and respectful. What I didn't expect is for one random sprag to shield my mum from the people who were going to the bar. I know for a fact if that was any other fan base it probably wouldn't have happened. That person could have got a great spot but decided to protect my mum. I think that's a credit to not only you but most of the community you've created. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Also, I know this isn't really related but congratulations on fostering and doing restbite. I'm so jealous of whichever kid gets you and G (+ Steve) as foster parents, you both are so kind to the sprags there's no doubt they are going to adore you. When I was younger I had bits of restbite every now and again and I can tell you are going to be brilliant, granted it's hard but worth it! Like I said last night I'm always available ;) </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Basically that's it, just thank you xxxx</span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-20444014225030806852017-02-24T22:32:00.000+00:002017-02-24T22:32:28.078+00:00On my mind......<div style="background-color: white; color: #454545; line-height: normal;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I've said this before and I'll happily say it again - I despise being labelled an inspiration. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At the moment I'm recovering from an operation on my foot and I'm not only in a cast and crutches, but also being carted in a wheelchair. If you know me, you know my annoyance at this and how at the moment my self-respect and esteem are rock bottom cause I'm sticking out like a sore thumb even more than usual. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Some people (able-bodied I'm going to add) think that it's acceptable that because in the rehabilitation stage of the op that I need to be told that I'm a fighter or I'm an inspiration to encourage and lift my spirits (cringe) no mate. I may be even more mobility impaired than usual - but it's my leg that's messed up - not my brain. No matter what state I look like I'm in - I'm not going to sit around and be inspiration porn. I'm like any of my friends, just that it seems that whoever upstairs decided to mess my body up a little and I'm left with a pretty crappy right side- no big deal I function perfectly well. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I feel the phase 'inspiration porn' sum up these last few weeks pretty well. I'm exposed and people are watching and what's even worse is that they are getting a kick out of patronising me, they don't realise they are but, it the simplest of terms they are sort of turning me into an object of inspiration to make themselves feel great about their own lives. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It's exactly the same thing when on fb you see someone run with prosthetic legs and the caption says 'what's your excuse?' Making the reader place the PWD as a super human when most likely all they wanted to do was go for a run like anyone else!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The worse thing is that I know everyone around me who doing this is thrilled with me for 'persevering' and 'overcoming obstacles' and are telling me this all with good intentions but it just makes me want to curl up in a ball and hide - I just want to be treat the same as any one of my peers - is that so much to ask?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">This post isn't about every person I know - so don't freak out if you think it's you. Actually to be fair it's about nobody outside of school really so yeah most of you who read it are fine</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So remember a few months back I mentioned I was going on a holiday to Florida with a charity called dreamflight (they take children with life changing disabilities and illnesses to the theme parks of Orlando for ten days without their parents) yeahhhhh so that happened......eeeeeekkkkkkkkk.<wbr></wbr>...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I came back a few days ago so I'm still jet lagged, so apologies if if this post doesn't make any sense!! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">What to talk about first????! I know the highlights! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">For me, and probably most of the other 191 (192 including me) VICs (Very Important Children) one of the biggest highlights was swimming with dolphins. It was an phenomenal experience - from touching/stroking them (they feel like rubber if you ever wanted to know, think of hard boiled eggs, same texture) to being able to watch the other kids in your group, of whom the majority of wouldn't shut up about how excited about it since the coach journey down to Heathrow, swim with Cindy (Cindy was our dolphin) and feeling sooo happy for them, to then swimming with one for myself with the BIGGEST grin on my face cause we were all buzzing for eachother. It was truly amazing and one of the best days ever! And being in the Dolphin group made it just that much more perfect. The only downside to that day was getting in and out of a wetsuit....I swear I'm never putting myself or anyone else through that EVER again. <img alt="😂" class="CToWUd" data-goomoji="1f602" goomoji="1f602" src="https://mail.google.com/mail/e/1f602" style="margin: 0px 0.2ex; max-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle;" /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Another highlight was the early morning and after park swims we had. I know the idea of waking up at <span class="aBn" data-term="goog_596556749" style="border-bottom: 1px dashed rgb(204, 204, 204); position: relative; top: -2px; z-index: 0;" tabindex="0"><span class="aQJ" style="position: relative; top: 2px; z-index: -1;">6 am</span></span> to go swimming isn't that appealing to most back home, but when you are there and it's already like 20 degrees outside in a heated pool underneath the stars watching the sun rise it makes it the best time to be awake, especially when the pool was practically empty. What made it even better was that former DF child Paralympic swimmer Liz Johnson was sitting with pool patrol most mornings and as she has practically the same type of Cerebral palsy to me she helped me improve my technique so I stopped going round in circles. I'm no Paralympian that's for sure but I definitely gain confidence and that's one of the many goals of dreamflight.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The funny thing is that I never expected it to have such an dramatic affect on me, I thought could just get on with normal life after being dropped off at the coach station and I wouldn't cry as we said goodbye to people from our group who left at Heathrow airport to go home. But I did cry and I haven't stopped thinking about dreamflight since I got home. It's so wonderful and strange how attached to people over ten days.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I have so many thank yous to say to everyone from the Dolphins group. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Firstly to my Escort/carer for the trip, Ellie. Thank you for everything you do and for giving up your time to help the Dolphin kids like me for ten days. I know I've already said this in person but thank you for having the patience and heart to take me and my roommate under your wing (or maybe more appropriately 'fin' -since we are dolphins) and supporting us so that we could have the best ten days possible without having to worry about our conditions and stuff like that, I know we are both missing your random dancing and cuddles already xxx </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Jo, dolphin leader, this couldn't have been as awesome a trip without your years of dreamflight experience. Everyone knew what to do and from a kid's perspective everything seemed to just flow (as a said before I'm still jet lagged I know this doesn't make sense!)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">All the American helpers, you guys are awesome, as you would say. I don't think someone of you realise how important your volunteering is to how this charity operates from pushing wheelchairs to decorating the hotel, without your time and contributions the holiday would have been so much less lively and less fun for everyone. All the Americans that helped the Dolphins I will never forget you. thank you for all your support and for bringing so many smiles to everyone's faces.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The BA crew, Leanna and Claire, you both are incredible! I really can't put in to words the gratitude I think every single Dolphin kid has for you. From the hugs and hot chocolates to being on pool patrol and doing your real job of looking after us on the plane journeys, you did it in such style and you can just tell you are such kind and considerate people from the smiles on both your faces. I would have never have guessed how big your roles would be within the group but the both of you were as caring for me and my Roommate as Ellie was, and that really surprised me. Also side note: you were both so good at putting on my leg brace and I was very impressed by that as well xxx</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I just want to say a big thank you to you for starting up a charity which over its 30 years has impacted so many people's lives. I have learnt things about myself over the ten days that I would never have realised if it wasn't for dreamflight and I have met so many amazing people and friends whom I will never forget sharing once in a lifetime experiences with. Thank you for dreamflight; it's boosted my confidence and self-believe and I hope it carries on to change people's lives for another 30 years. Thank you . </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I can't believe it's actually finished, dreamflight 30 is over, the best days I've had in forever are done;I won't see my dolphins til March time *sad face* BUT roll on the reunion! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It was an extraordinary trip. At some point I will be doing something to fundraise for this awesome charity but in the meantime here is the link to find out more:</span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-73719195941632289212016-09-07T20:39:00.001+01:002016-09-07T20:39:28.216+01:00Politics<div style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">One thing nobody really teaches you is how politicised having a disability is. The state metaphorical tossing you aside and saying your a waste of resources. Especially now, your whole being in society, government wise, determined to whether you can work. If you can, you're not disabled 'enough' and get practically nothing. If you can't, you're lazy and deserve the bare minimum.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Accessibility is seen as a burden and us becoming too demanding, as the greedy they claim <b>us</b> to be. We turn invisible, subhuman ; the others. We are portrayed by them as burdens to society for simply wanting to exist in the world as any other person does.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> Weekly survival is one thing that is in constant jeopardy. From losing jobs due to sick days, to rising costs of adaptations and accommodations (and cuts to services that provide them). The threat of your support from the state disappearing because of austerity, most likely, that they caused and are failing to stop - the list goes on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Most right to die advocates passionately fighting for euthanasia to be legalised, instead of fighting for equal rights for PWDs. Doesn't sound right in my opinion. Not fighting for accommodations. Not fighting for accessibility. Not fighting against cuts which put PWDs in these dire conditions that they think this is the way out. Instead fighting for our right to die, and not improving the situations we have been put in today.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Think about it, disability and politics go hand in hand. Scary right?? </span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-58871465775142649212016-06-21T22:16:00.003+01:002016-06-21T22:16:31.432+01:00Savio and Dreamflight<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So you can probably tell by the title, this blogpost is about my week instead of some hard-hitting disability information. I've done a lot this week to be honest and I'm extremely excited about one thing, but more on that later!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Both Monday and Tuesday were pretty ordinary: 6:45 am wake up for school, trying to drink 2 litres plus of water (drunk about 4 each day), going to school on 5 hours sleep due to a mix anticipation of the fore coming days and well how can I put this, social media! Also I had to finish packing. Anyhow I don't have much to say about those 2 days apart from they were pretty much normal and okay!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Then came Wednesday, the first day of retreat. Again I only had roughly 6 hours sleep for the same reasons (damn it snapchat!) I arrived at school like normal on the council transport bus, but instead of a school bag in my chair, a suitcase and I headed up to the PE department to drop off my stuff and sign in. Pretty straight forward. Then it was time to get on the coach AKA the part when all the unflattering Snapchat stories commenced (E, I'm talking to YOU!) and we drove for goodness knows how long until we arrived at Savio. For the rest of the day it was mainly settling in and stuff like that.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Thursday is when all the main religious stuff took place. ( I go to a catholic school, what do you expect) a reconciliation service and one of the most comical Masses I've experienced, isn't hard to claim that title haha, happened. It was just funny, I can't really explain why. Later that night it was the disco and I can honestly say I've never seen so many people trying to the Macarena in such close proximity to each other. The whole thing was hilarious especially getting teachers to dab.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Friday came round soon enough, by this point I was shattered, completely and utterly shattered. The majority of the day was spent doing affirmation, basically writing nice stuff about other people. We had our lunch of fish fingers, then we packed the coach and climbed aboard for our trip home. Surprisingly leaving Savio was more emotional than I first anticipated. It felt weird, like I wasn't ready to go back to school. Anyway we arrived back about 3.15 and it was starting to rain. Classic British weather. With the help of one of my teachers, I got all by stuff into my mums van and we drove home.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Whilst driving, Mum said something along the lines of "I've got something really exciting to show you when You get home, and I need to film it." This really started puzzle me and a load of irrational ideas popped in my head. She said it with a wicked smile on her face, so I knew it would be something I was going to be excited about.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">We got home, by then I was fully shaking with anticipation. I sat in the kitchen at the table; my mum brought through a a4 envelope and started filming. I opened said envelope which had a letter in it, at the top of the letter it said in big bold letters 'your child has been chosen to go to Orlando, Florida with dreamflight Oct 2016' not going to lie I screamed.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Apparently when we first met my neurologist, I was 1, the head nurse Jane, mentioned to my mum this charity, dreamflight, which takes disabled children aged 8-14 to all the major Orlando theme parks and said I may go with them one day. For the last few years Jane kept on saying I wasn't ready until my last appointment late last year. And my neurologist has been doing the nomination form behind my back. In fact my mum found out that I got a place around a month ago! And all my carers knew. And everyone kept it a secret, which knowing some of my carers, must have been really hard!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So I'm going to go to Orlando! Ekkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk I'm so so grateful and super excited. It's like 115 days away (not like I'm constantly counting down or anything- honest!)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-42584644309791030372016-06-11T18:50:00.000+01:002016-06-11T18:50:31.287+01:00OMG blog-aversary alert!!!!!!!<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Hi,</span><div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">You know what I've just realised? I've been doing this for a whole year. Uno </span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 14.772px;">año! It's super surreal that not only have I stuck with it (my biggest commitment- well apart from vegetarianism) its that people even bother reading the ramblings that I some how scrape into a post,I can't imagine a room of 1000 people let alone 14 thousand people, it is slightly scary to think that that's the amount of views I have at present.</span></span></span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-23524472622928364432016-06-05T19:10:00.001+01:002016-06-05T19:10:12.292+01:00Hollywood <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">(Trigger warning: suicide)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So, all of the time we hear of celebrity endorsed campaigns and charities in aid of suicide prevention. Normally addressing the viewer directly and the celebrity talking about their own attempted suicide or about a case study, reassuring those watching they aren't alone and said charity will help them, if they reach out to it. We are all familiarised with these ways breakthrough. Even Hollywood films are used to spread these vital messages, right?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">For any able-bodied person, the answer, in general, would be yes. So why are Hollywood writers and directors telling a completely different message to the disabled community?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So many films are depicting the life of a PWD isn't worth living, that we are supposedly wanting to kill ourselves to end our 'suffering'- that that's the only way to escape what 'unfair' lives we live. That we aren't worth it.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">A extremely recently film, me before you, is in a line of rom-coms to go down this plot route. Although I personally haven't seen this film, from reading articles and reviews of it, this is what many disability activists make of it.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">(The striped back plot is that a guy named Will is super rich with a city job, but becomes quadriplegic after an accident. His carer,Louise, is horrified when Will wants to visit an assisted suicide clinic to end his life. The pair obviously fall in love, but Will still wants to go ahead with his original plan.)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">At the film premiere the activism group 'Not Dead Yet' staged a protest and some activists have voiced their discomfort with the plot</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">“The message of the film is that disability is tragedy and disabled people are better off dead,” said disabled activist, Ellen Clifford. “It comes from a dominant narrative carried by society and the mainstream media that says it is a terrible thing to be disabled.”</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I don't really know what to make of this topic to be honest. On one hand I feel like it provokes discussion about disability which are extremely important to get into mainstream media. However, it literally leaves a window of opportunity for so many people to stereotype PWDs as suicidal, due to the fact that there is a lack of representation of PWDs in films and TV shows.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">But one thing that I'm sure of is that Hollywood has created this plot line and pulling the pity card to get more money. Always the case!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Anyway, sorry this is so late- lack of inspiration</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeeeee</span></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8px;" />Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-82550490987541747682016-05-27T20:58:00.000+01:002016-05-27T20:58:01.341+01:00Invisible disabilities....... <div id="yui_3_16_0_ym19_1_1464360112397_37154" style="-webkit-padding-start: 0px; background-color: white; font-size: 13px;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Now, something that really bugs me is when arrogant people think that invisible disabilities/mental illnesses aren't a thing. In fact one in ten children, aged between 1 and 15, live with some form of mental illness/distress and 1 in 4 adults will experience some form of diagnosable mental heath illness in one year, with 1 in 6 adults experiencing this at any given time. According to a 2001 record, it says mixed anxiety and depression are the most 'common' mental illnesses in the UK. So in reality, invisible/mental illnesses are so widespread and can affect <b style="-webkit-padding-start: 0px;">anyone</b>. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I don't want to come across as nagging or anything but here are a list of things anyone shouldn't say to a person with a invisible disability, and yes I know and am aware I've been doing a load of lists recently, sorry if they are getting tedious!</span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-83574055528924163282016-05-16T01:00:00.000+01:002016-05-16T01:00:24.125+01:00Language recap........<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222;">(</span><b><span style="color: red;">Trigger warning: ableist language</span></b><span style="color: #222222;">)</span></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I've written about this sort of thing before and I just want to recap it because as I've been more aware of it, it's been like driving me up the walls when I notice it at school from both teachers and pupils and it's ableist slurs.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">The most common one I hear on a day to day basis is 'cr*zy'. Basically it the raw form it's an ableist/psychophobic slur used to ultimately degrade people who have or suffer from mental illnesses/distress and it should be only used by a person who is part of said community when describing themselves. (e.g I call myself a 'cr*pple' sometimes although my peers cannot call me it without explicit consent, if that makes sense!).</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">But in today's world it has come to be a everyday thing in 3 core different situations, here are some alternate words to use:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Situation 1.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">When describing something intense</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Eg someone saying "she's a little cr*zy" or even "that was cr*zy/ins*ne" (it applies to synonyms too)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Alternative words:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Excessive</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Extreme</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Vivid</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Unimaginably</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Ridiculously</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Impassioned</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hugely</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Intense</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Situation 2.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">When describing something negative/traumatic</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Eg "the car crash was cr*zy" or "injustice in the 21st century is cr*zy"</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Alternative words:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Alarming</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Chilling</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Horrific</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Frightful</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Distressing</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Eerie</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hellish</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Situation 3.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">When describing something unusual/ridiculous</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">E.g "You have some cr*zy habits." Or "This place is ins*ne." (Again synonym)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Alternative words:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Absurd</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Bizarre</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Unrealistic</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Illogical</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Preposterous</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Unconventional</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Inappropriate</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I just want to put it out there- I'm not writing this in order to shame you, I just want to spread awareness of what these words originally meant and say that we should be a bit more mindful of language choices which could offend; yet we are still human, slipping up is certain inevitable, that's okay. I just want people to at least try and get it out of the norm of social interaction- at least once.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-82926538494738380242016-05-11T19:43:00.001+01:002016-05-12T16:00:36.336+01:00guest post..............<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Before I show you this post, I just want to say a huge thank you to the person who wrote it, you know I've been feeling rubbish recently and this made me so much happier, I cried and I never get that emotional over stuff like this:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So here it is ladies and gents,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Hello there! </b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>I’m some stranger that you readers aren’t used to…and I feel honoured to post a lovely, cheesy rant on the CP Blog! So, lets say I’m called ‘E’. HI then! I’m ‘E’ and I feel like me and Ruthie have been friends for most of my life, and that we’ve known each other for ages (because of how well we get on!). When really, we’ve only known each other for a few years.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>It all started in a science lesson, when I was seated next to Ruthless. Firstly, she came across as a very friendly, brainy person, with her infinite tallness…AND-Since I would always have trouble crawling through science, Ruthie would be by my side, helping me out with explanatory speeches of what I’m stuck on, and often a ‘Copy my answers, then!’ tactic. Soon our friendship was already beginning to make an appearance! She had me laughing with her random outbursts of One Direction songs (Even though she swears she doesn’t like them!). Also, the CP Blogger totally blew me away with her knowledge! SHE’S SO CLEVER. I don’t care what you say, Ruthie! You are and you know it! Moving on, every Science lesson, I could feel our relationship getting thicker, stronger, between us. Like a magnetic pull - accept we weren’t THAT forcefully attracted to each other! *well I think I messed that simile up…*</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Moving on, Ruthie is a brillant friend. She’s so independent, glowing with inspiration, and I’ve just gotta love her to bits no matter what! Since, our friendship is a long, firm chain. More links are added the more personal, deep secrets we blurt to each other, and the inside jokes that never get old. This ‘chain’ does have it’s rusty sections, but it has it’s stronger parts, too. </b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Every time I see Ruthie, she has a wide grin plastered across her face, which is usually followed with a series of looks exchanged between our locked eye contact (Those looks carry so much inside jokes, and inappropriate laughter at things that only us will ever know about…hehe!) </b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>ANYWAY-finally! I’ve pretty much done now. Sorry to bore you all with my long, more personal rant. As you can see, mine and Ruthie’s friendship has A LOT to say! What about the fact : we already know way too much about each other that we’re stuck as friends for eternity? Or : we’re both so weird but we still choose to be seen with each other? ETC. So, thank you for coming on this long-winded journey through many words, and mainly for getting to the end of this post! </b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #351c75; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Good bye! X</b></span></div>
Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-51964323012053164142016-05-06T19:30:00.005+01:002016-05-06T19:30:59.435+01:00Really? Faking disability...... <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Okay,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Why do some people still think that people fake having disabilities?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I personally have never heard of someone faking their disability to get special accommodations or 'treatment' as some may put it. We constantly are fighting a losing battle to prove ourselves of our disabilities in order to get the support/accommodations we need for school, work and everyday life, especially when the PWD has an invisible disability that others don't realise because they 'don't look disabled'.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Of course accusing someone of faking a disabilities, especially an invisible on, is being ableist and harmful towards that individual! As a member of the general public it is not your place to ask for evidence, such as audiologist graphs for proof of deafness or to see medication for depression, you aren't helping them. (It sounds far-fetched, it does happen!) </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">By doing this sort of thing it's making it harder for PWDs to advocate themselves BECAUSE they are wasting their time trying to prove they have disabilities, instead of focusing on improving accessibility and spreading awareness.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Even IF that particular person was lying, let that part of the disabled community handle it themselves! It's not any other person's place to generalise that all people with that certain disability are lying from that point onwards.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">We don't need, nor want generalisation to shadow our community.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-86230816797862064702016-04-27T18:09:00.004+01:002016-04-27T18:09:53.149+01:00PSA: wheelchair users...........<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Hi,</span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
This is going to only short PSA (public service announcement) but it's
very important too realise and I've mentioned it in previous post but I
feel on behalf of the disabled community, I need to re-empathise this.</span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
Wheelchairs are uses for ambiguous reason aside from paralysis, it could
be very painful for that person to walk, it could be due to over
tiredness, not have the strength to walk, hyperflexibility, shortness of
breath/low lung capacity, fragility of the muscle, joints or skin.</span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br />
People stop harassing wheelchair users when they stand up and walk with
out the aid of the chair in public! They're not trying to get attention,
they're not even trying to impress you- they are purely trying to do
their day to day business, likewise to you, and it is not your place to
determine whether or not that person needs an mobility aid, such as a
wheelchair. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">You aren't a doctor- and trust me, they know their needs a
hella lot better than you will.</span></span>
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Thanks</span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Sincerely,</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">The semi-wheelchair user community</span></span>
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PSA/Rant concluded- you are free to go!</span></span>
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Byeeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-85418452745735524132016-04-22T22:37:00.001+01:002016-04-22T22:37:15.727+01:0025 facts about me.......<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Hi,</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">So I've hit 10k views on my blog and to celebrate
I've decided to do a 25 facts about me post as there is a lot of new
readers on here so what a better time for you lot to get to know me?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I just want to thank all of you for reading these weird trails of thoughts and lets hope there will be many to come!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><u>25 facts about moi</u></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">1. Zodiac sign?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I'm an Aries and I feel I fit my traits extremely accurately</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">2. 3 fears?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I'm claustrophobic, scared of confrontation in some way and I'm scared of being lonely</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">3. 3 things I love?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">My friends and family, studying (not necessarily school) and blogging </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">4. My best friend?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Well I have around four close friends and they all read my blog- I ain't doing favouritism</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">5. The last song I listened to?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Either 'Daddy' by Emeli Sandé or 'uninspired' by Lucy Spraggan</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">6. The reason I started to blog?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">To make people aware of ableism from the perspective of a teenager with a physical disability 'cause sometimes hearing it from an able-bodied so called disablity expert don't cut it!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">7. How I feel right now? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Alright I guess </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">8. Something I really want? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">FOOD or MONEY just kidding I don't really know</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">9. Current relationship status?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Single and I don't really want to change that at the moment </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">10. My favourite movie?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Probably the divergent series</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">11. My favourite songs?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Basically anything by Lucy Spraggan </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">12. My favourite artist?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Lucy Spraggan (how could you guess!)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">13. 3 things that upset me?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">When
people are treated unfairly, when people use ableist slurs without
understanding how harmful they can be to people and when people
patronise me.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">14. 3 things that make me happy?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Friends
and family, some aspects of school (yes, yes I'm the geek and teachers
pet, can't help it!) and blogging my opinions I guess</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">15. Some one I miss?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">A friend with the nickname Ralph </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">16. 3 things that annoy me?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Any form of ableist language coming from my friends, patronising people, when people assume stuff about me</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">17. One thing I've lied about?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I don't lie but like maybe about my age</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">18. Something that's constantly on my mind?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">School work or someone (not telling who)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">19. My future goals?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">To stick at blogging and advocacy and to educate my generation about ableism </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">20. Do I want tattoos?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Yeah/maybe they have to mean something that's permanent for me to get one, so probably it will be something disability related </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">21. Something I believe in? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Equality: no matter what race, sexuality or difference </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">22. Favourite quote?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">'No amount of smiling at a flight of stairs has ever made it turn into a ramp'- Stella Young</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">23.First thing I notice in a person?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">If they are trustworthy or not</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">24. Favourite subject?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">RE or English </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">25. Random </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I can't really properly lie to people I know who have brown hair and blue eyes face to face for some reason</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">So that's my 25 facts and another Huge thanks for 10,000 views I mean I'm not that interesting, surely?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Anyway </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Byeeeeeeeeeeee</span></span></div>
Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-81548818198466095942016-04-19T18:04:00.000+01:002016-04-22T15:28:53.125+01:00Wheelchair observations <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;">Hi,<br />
<br />
So you won't be aware but I've sprained my ankle last week and the
doctor has said 'Don't be a hero' and 'Use your wheelchair when in pain'
now neither of those are very natural to me anymore and today I'm going
to be focusing on the wheelchair side of things from my perspective.
Here's a list of funny/awkward things that I've noticed happen when I'm
in the chair.<br />
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1. Higher voices.<br />
Whenever I'm in my chair it seems that people's vocal range changes, as
soon as I am sat down their voices go an octave higher. I probably just
being paranoid but I see it all the time.<br />
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2. Rookie drivers<br />
I'm always surrounded with really helpful people, which I'm really
thankful for by the way, but it seems like as soon as they get hold of
the handles- it's like formula one. I'm either going 1000 miles per hour
or I'm going to end up getting flipped out of my chair. And you know
who the worst are at doing this? Teachers 100 percent (but that's a
whole different blogpost)<br />
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3. Crowds<br />
The most annoying thing ever! Why, you ask? Think very carefully, where
is my head in comparison to a relativity tall person...... Yeah.....
That gives another meaning to the word butt-head<br />
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4. Lifts<br />
Yes, I get that there are lifts in most buildings but trying to get to
them is the hard part. With my luck (note I sprained my ankle the day
before my birthday) I'm in a class room that is across the entire school
from a lift and I have to push myself all the way there or the lift
directly next to the classroom is out of order; even worse I'll get
stuck in a lift at school, like last year, again another story.<br />
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5. Conversations<br />
Now I'm a tall person, 5ft 9 with boots, so I understand this from both
sides. So whenever I'm talking to someone who is walking and is fully
standing, especially when it's busy, it just seems like a eternity of
'what?! say that again' or 'pardon' (depending on who I'm with!) I am
not the sort of person to repeat over and over again and that's why I'm
an antisocial semi-wheelchair using teenager - I give up!<br />
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6. The 'you can actually walk face'<br />
OMG, call the press I'm a wheelchair user that, you may want to sit down
for this- it's shocking, CAN walk! (Such the con-artist!) WOW can you
believe some people use chairs for other reasons than they can't
physically walk? The funny thing about this is I normally stand up mid
push and looking around there's at least one person who hasn't scraped
their jaw off the floor. Must be a miracle, huh?!<br />
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Most of these are just jokey, don't take it that seriously and for
people who know me, these aren't meant to be aimed towards anyone- just
some generalisations.<br />
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Byeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-75980750518955573082016-04-06T12:11:00.001+01:002016-04-29T17:48:10.063+01:00A poem: them<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Hi,</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So something you may not know about me is that I like to write poems. I don't know why but I just do, and they are probably all really bad and cringey. They are mostly just random and I just write, likewise with blogging, and basically see what happens to be honest. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">This Poem is quite deep and it is basically my view on the UK government and what they are doing within the disabled community, although it doesn't really portray that very well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So here is my attempt of a poem:</span></div>
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<u><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Them</span></u></div>
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<u><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">By the CP blogger/Ruthie Hayward</span></u></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">They label me,<br />categorically organise me,<br />They place me in the suffocating box afar from my reality,<br />They are afraid of my definition chains,<br />of my difference from the norm in our corrupt society,<br /><br />Their propaganda says we aren't pure and idealistic perfection,<br />So we are to blame for their criminal inflictions,<br />That we brought it on ourselves,<br /><br />The knife of their cuts, their first weapon of choice,<br />Some are stranded- without a voice,<br />Alone and abandoned by our leaders,<br />A running man without sneakers,<br /><br />How on earth did they get power,<br />And when so many are suffering in the darkest hours,<br />The hardships my community face,<br />Well, we can't keep up with your sick game of chase,<br /><br />They will continue to label me,<br />To categorically organise me,<br />They will carry on to place me in the suffocating box afar from my reality,<br />They still are afraid of my definition chains,<br />Of my differences,<br />Of what makes me me,<br />The D word,<br /><br />And you have no idea,<br />Because of them,<br />You have no idea.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Byeeeeeeeee</span></span></div>
Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-32923573352435445922016-04-01T16:37:00.002+01:002016-04-01T16:37:44.325+01:00Pathetic sob stories<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">This is a weird blog post for me to write because it could be perceived as me B**ching (woo I swore sorry) about the disabled community, it's not. My blog, my opinion- just saying.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">You know what I absolutely hate? When parents/guardians of PWDs use their children's disabilities as a sob story. Okay, I understand that finding out and diagnostic tests can be traumatic experiences and I totally get that medical terminology is like an alien language; what I don't get is when parents take it a bit too far and use it to draw sympathy and attention to themselves and make it out like they live such a hard life all because their child has a disability.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">So before you even consider having a child, you should be ready to handle a disabled child, twins, or a child who has a different sexuality to you. 'Cause if you're not ready to 'cope' with a child who isn't straight/cis or able bodied/ Neurotypical, they are going to be, in one form or another, abused for many years to come.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">And even if you get the 'dream' baby you may have a feminine boy or a masculine girl, you need to be able to let them be who they are not how you imagined them to be- they aren't your property.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">I am so fed up with and tired of parental sob stories about how 'hard' it is to 'raise' who is different from the perfect or norm.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">You know what's harder then those pathetic sob stories? The child knowing that they have almost let down their parents for existing in a way their parents didn't ask for and worse living knowing that they weren't what their parents were planning or expecting. And for so many people this is the reality however unrealistic it may seem.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">Let's let that sink in</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">Byeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-67892756968829799262016-03-25T16:52:00.001+00:002016-03-25T16:56:23.963+00:00So I found this...........<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Hi,</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Couple of things before I start: </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Uno- this blog now has an Instagram, go follow @theCPblogger for updates (And there is a link at the bottom as well)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Dos- I am FINALLY on Easter break whoop-whoop!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Tres- we've only gone and got 6k views.....PARRRRRRRTTTTTYYYYYYYY. THANKS YOU LOT!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Now lets get on with this...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Okay, so before I properly started blogging, I entered a writing competition and nothing really came about it; so the other day I was looking at my entry and well its quite something. All I'm going say is that we were given the brief it had to be based on an experience or opinion....... </span><br />
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<b><u><span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Just because I’m disabled it doesn’t means I’m thick
or a baby!<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Ok then, as a 12 year old
disabled girl, who goes to a mainstream school, I’m going to get bullied,
aren’t I? So far, in my eventful life, I haven’t been constantly bullied, as
I’m very fortunate to have brilliant friends who stick up for me; it’s not
really that bad. Yes, I may have a psycho arm, which is ruthless and without me
controlling it - most of the time – it hits people without warning (which is
thanks to my cerebral palsy!) I have to have a bulky wheelchair that gets me a
lift pass, which to be completely honest with you is one of the perks of being
disabled, but yet having the chair means I have to leave for classes earlier to
get to them on time-so it has its positives and negatives. For me, it’s not
that big of a deal because ‘I just shake it off, shake it off’. Sorry for the
Taylor swift reference, I couldn’t stop myself!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So, the one thing that really
bugs me about school, is the fact that people automatically, without even
thinking, assume that I’m thick or I’m a big baby. This is because in my
profile, it says in big… bold… letters SEN. The easiest way to describe what
SEN means is, that I am disabled! When people see these three letters they
normally start treating me like a toddler, I’m a year 8 pupil for the record,
stop treating me like a freaking baby! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For example, way back in year
6, our teacher was working with my table and we were doing about ww2 evacuees.
I was working by myself, not struggling or anything, but she still came and sat
next to me. I thought to myself “well this feels a bit intimidating and strange
but ok, I’m fine with Miss ****** sitting that close to me whilst I work.” (I’m
not saying her name and also it isn’t a swear word that I use as nick name for
her either! Promise!). So I carried on working. When I was starting to do the
arty bits she asked me “Oh Ruthie, let me help you with that.” She proceeded to
move my work nearer her; in my head I was thinking, “Oh hell no!” but I said
instead “Oh I can cope on my own thanks.” Came out. And I slid my work back.
You may think that was just her trying to help me, but the thing that got me
was later that lesson I showed her the work and miss ******* said “you are such
an inspiration Ruthie, I couldn’t be as motivated as you.” Or something along
those lines, which would be fine and I wouldn’t be offended. However, the tone
of her voice, which was sort of patronising ‘as if I just went on the potty and
did a wee’ well done voice, one where she spoke slowly as though I couldn’t
understand her! Like why? I’m not a 2 year old. That’s a memory that I’ll
remember because it’s the first time I felt someone was patronising me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Many people, don’t think some
people have a disability if it is not a physical one, such as dyslexia, but as
soon as they are told that you have a disability, the patronisation starts.
1800 babies are born in the UK, a year, with cerebral palsy. It is individual
to the person, so it can effect on side of the body (called Hemiplegia), it can
effect one limb (called Monoplegia) and many more. There are different
strengths of each type of cerebral palsy so it can sometimes only affect a
child’s speech. This is unnoticeable until the child starts to talk. People,
such as teachers, wouldn’t treat people with a disability which is not
noticeable differently, so why treat people with a disability that is
noticeable like 2 year olds!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Do you want to know why I
think people have this idea, that if a person has a disability then they should
be treated different to the norm? Well when you think about disabilities you
see the differences between a person with a condition and one without that
condition. You don’t see the similarities, so in theory in a social situation,
you know that the person is different so thus treating him/her not in the same
way as ‘normal’ person. There is one
question that I think we need to know the answer to. What is the definition of
normal? For all we know, having a disability is normal! But there is a flaw,
no-one knows, at first, what the person’s capabilities are resulting in you treating
them like they are younger than they are. This is fine until the point when you
know what their capabilities are, but you still treat them like they are
younger because it is easier or you don’t have an understanding of how they
work. Then it turns into discrimination or patronisation which isn’t right. So
just because we are disabled don’t treat us any different to other people!</span><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #20124d;"> </span><span style="background-color: blue;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I don't even know what this is, you can tell I was new at this. I think we can all say this was my first rant. Oh and shout out to my best friend who edited this for me, I AM SO SO SORRY.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">blog Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thecpblogger/">https://www.instagram.com/thecpblogger/</a></span></div>
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Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-41525481208846822832016-03-20T12:52:00.003+00:002016-03-20T12:52:30.759+00:00Achievements vs Ableism <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">Okay then, so I've been meaning to post something about this for a while now and I've finally found some motivation from somewhere so I might get on with it.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">As a PWD, it makes me deeply uncomfortable how quick we rattle off our personal accomplishments for the sake of impressing our able bodied or disabled peers. Why do we, in the 21st, supposed 'equality' fuelled era, anticipate that an achievement such as 'I went to the shops without a carer' won't be treated seriously and congratulated,as it's something society expects everyone to be able to do.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">It's perfectly fine to be proud of your achievements or milestones, but you shouldn't have to prove how "non-disabled" you are to gain social legitimacy or praise.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">And as for the disabled community, Distancing yourself from negative,uncomfortable or socially-unaccepted disability clichés belittles many PWD who don't have the level support or don't have the ability/stamina to accomplish what you may of done. It's just as important to acknowledge that disabled people that are home bound or live in poorer nations are just as valid as the ones who travel the world with countless degrees.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">So in short I'm saying that disabled legitimacy shouldn't be Dependent upon conforming with ableist expectations on life experience and productivity.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;">Byeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-49765850014346616992016-03-16T07:44:00.003+00:002016-03-16T07:44:16.210+00:00Reminder :) :<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Hi,</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Today I've been seeing a lot of posts on my social media reminding the reader that they always need to strive to work harder than they all ready are.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I just want to remind you lot that working hard all the time, for some, its just not possible. Some people burn out easily. Some are PWD, both mental and physical, that keep them from accomplishing as much as they think they should.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Sure I agree we should all work hard,but ONLY as hard as you know you can. Push yourself, but please don't push yourself to your absolute edge if its dangerous for you to do so. Remember a little bit of work every day adds up. Don't beat yourself up if you can't exert yourself to the level everyone else says you should.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Remember, that whatever pace you go, you're still talking steps in the right direction. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Byeeeeeeeeeee</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">(P.s PWD = People with disabilities)</span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-55103758108619155682016-03-01T20:40:00.003+00:002016-03-01T20:40:59.012+00:00I'm fed up<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Hi,</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I'm fed up. I'm fed up with having a psycho arm, I'm fed up with pain dictating what I can and can't do and I'm fed up of have teachers talking down to me because of this and not understanding. Ughhhhh I've had enough.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Today I made a promise that I'm not sugar coating anything anymore 'cause what's the point? Why hide what you feel like and then nothing happens to change it? I don't care if its going to change what I'm like- I need to start being real.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">To be honest I feel sorry for some of my teachers. Like they put so much effort into lesson planing and then they have to change it all to be inclusive and it's like a rush of panic to their brain, and it's all because of me- the one that has to do things differently. I bet they hate changing the lessons because they are stretched thinly enough with this stupid government in charge. Honestly I take my imaginary hat off to them.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Today I realised that pain really decides whether or not I can do something. Like I've noticed it for a while now but what really scares me is that at the end of the day I 'can't wait' - not the right way to put it- to have a paracetamol to stop it. I mean I'm 12 years old not 88 why is it that bad? I shouldn't need it like that. Now before you all think yeah but I have a disability and stuff but do you really think that I want to be different- I have that enough already.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">And you know what I'm so stubbornly ashamed about? Sitting out in stuff like PE. I know it's the stubborn cow side of me but I feel like I'm waste doing it. I should be doing what everyone else is in my head I can and it's not like I'm using the disability card to get out of it, it's just the claw of pain pins me down and I can't. I absolutely hate it because for me, I would never want to get out of something at school, yes I'm a geek, teachers pet or whatever but I enjoy learning, so sitting out is so out of character in my head. I'm not one to have many worse enemies but for the few I do have I wouldn't even wish it on them. So that's what it really feels like.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">It's funny that my best mate thinks I'm upset all the time, nah it's just pain.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Wow that's a rant and a half (wasn't meant to be) !</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-47334256201286392552016-02-14T14:58:00.000+00:002016-02-15T20:05:01.623+00:00COMPETITIVE sports............<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">Hi,</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Disclaimer: Yes this post may offend but I really don't care! The whole concept of blogging is to voice your opinions online and that's exactly what I am doing- I'm not going to hide anything in this post or hold back and it's my opinion so I am not really going to apologise. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So a few months ago I wrote about PE and whether or not I like it; that all still stands and I enjoy it so much fun but there's only one thing that I despise about the subject- the competition side of it. I'm not trying to diss really sporty people or anything but from a kid with CP point of view it sucks.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">My school's PE department is brilliant and they try to include me in every sport they can and I'm really grateful for that. but that's the staff and quite frankly speaking they are paid to do that, it's part of the job really. What annoys me though, is that the kids are less open minded about that sort of stuff, particularly some girls in set one. These girls are my friends but when sport is involved, to be honest they only care for winning.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I think I first really realised this when my set and their set joined up with one another for a lesson, a teacher was probably off and it was the easiest thing to do. Anyway to make it fair, the teacher decided to mix the sets up for the teams. The majority of the people on my team were from the top set so it was bound to be competitive, I knew that, it's obvious.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I'm not the most sporty of people there is but I try my damn hardest, I'll give myself that. I also am not the most competitive person if I lose, so what? But I noticed that, especially,the set one girls practically treat me as if I were invisible. At first I shrugged it off but they kept on doing it by then I was really annoyed and left our game to sit out. Not one of them battered an eyelid ; they just carried on. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">My PE teacher saw me sitting out and came over to make sure I was all right, thinking about this now she'd only taught me for a couple of months and still knew when I was angry/annoyed- the power of blogger huh, anyway she could see i was upset about it and asked why and said this was extremely out of character for me, I told her-by then I was almost in tears,almost.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">The thing that hurt most was that, if me and one of those girls were in a science class together, they would listen to me and include me. Yet in sports I'm a liability and a burden, a barrier stopping them from winning so they toss me aside and exclude me. I get that I am slow, I limp and that I have a walking stick, I've known this for nearly 13 years now, but that certainly doesn't mean I am incapable of thinking strategically or throwing a ball! My brain works okay it's just my body that doesn't cooperate fully. And what's even worse- they know it!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">That's what I hate about competitive sports with people who don't know how I 'work', no one includes us,we are ignored unless someone more senior interferes and we are practically placed on the subs bench.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">By the way, we ended up coming second (karma is a powerful vessel ;-) </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Next week we start competition block in PE and yes we are going to be joining up again, I have spoken about people who I work well with to my teacher and I looked at the board of teams on the Friday</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"> we broke up- no one,who will include me without me explaining Is on my team, I've told the top set teacher and we'll see what happens.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">But of course you can tell, I can't wait! Jk</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-23067336844525709552016-02-13T16:29:00.001+00:002016-02-13T16:29:33.425+00:00Clothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">So I was reading the news recently and in my opinion a major win for disabled people has occurred.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">The British retailer Marks and Spencer are going to be releasing a clothing line aimed to help children with special needs. The range will be called m&s and me which includes bodysuits and vests with poppers going up to a size 8 years, which is much appreciated by parents of children with disabilities.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">By adapting clothing,M&S,which </span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">is a huge shop in the UK, are filling a gap in the market and making clothes catered to the needs widely Available.Many disabled children who have special equipment or wear nappies are going to benefit due to the poppers being easy accessible changes instead of having to take the whole garment off.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">A spokesman for marks and Spencer has said: "The range currently comprises a small number of products that will be available online in the next few weeks - as with all new ranges, we will closely monitor customer interest and listen carefully to customer feedback on how it should be developed in the future"</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">I know its only clothes but I feel this is going to make many people's lives so much easier. </span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">Byeeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-74969917905776534962016-02-12T19:42:00.001+00:002016-02-12T19:42:50.694+00:00What happened on Tuesday.......<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">Hi,</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">I've been quiet the last few weeks,so sorry for that! I didn't know when to post this so how about right now?</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">On Tuesday, I met up with 2 lecturers of social work from the university of Sheffield to talk about my blog and the prospect of working with them with the living library project they are working on. But more on that at a later date.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">I was also asked to give feedback on the first year MA students presentations. So after lunch, I had a salad (I know! I'm amazed I stuck to my resolution too!), me,my mum and one of the the lecturers went to another block where the presentations were being presented and recorded; it was documented so the students can assess it for something. Anyway it was really cool.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">The students were given the topic 'a day in my life', they had to make a poster about it, then present and explain it</span><span style="background-color: white;"> to social service users, in this case me! And we gave 5 minutes of feedback. Your probably wondering why on earth would this be part of the course but I guess it gives the students an idea of how they need to be like, in terms of explaining etc.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">For me it was really interesting. This could be because of 2 reasons- I am a extremely nosey person, no joke or maybe it was because, mostly, they all seemed 'social-worker-y' like I could imagine them all as social workers, weird as that is. The thing that made me laugh was how nervous they were, one student literally spoke like she was Eminem rapping, I mean I get why she did that but calm down- we aren't that intense,are we? The two that I remember most are the first guy we saw and the last one, this is mainly because they were so 'relaxed' they sang. relaxed is in inverted comas because there was a tiny bit of pressure involved- Before you think we are horrible humans,in our defence they both put on their posters that they went to karaoke on the day they modelled it on so it sort of was compulsory.</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">So that's what I've been up to. School on Monday</span><span style="background-color: white;"> <span style="font-size: large;">ugghhhh</span>!</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">Anyway</span><br style="background-color: white;" /><br style="background-color: white;" /><span style="background-color: white;">Byeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-29524093730804928722016-02-04T17:14:00.001+00:002016-02-04T17:14:14.916+00:00Disability dating <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Hi,<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So this is a topic I'm not familiar with at all: dating people when you have a disability. I'm no expert on this, I've never experienced it but it's a hurdle most disabled people have so that's why I'm writing about it.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Where to start? Well I once read that 95% of abled-bodied people age between 14-21 would never think of dating a physically disabled person. That's terrible. Why? I mean just because we have a wheelchair or whatever it makes us practically undateable.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Another thing that show 'the undateable' which has mostly some kind of person with disabilities on it, always makes me annoyed as we are HUMAN beings and are dateable it is just society's closed mind saying we aren't.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Anyway and everyone says it isn't all about looks but it is! Yeah you might be attracted to their intelligence; surely you have to be attracted by the way they look a little bit, everyone is.its so sad really that great people get turned down just because of their physical appearance. Arrrrrggghhhhhh!!! Why is everyone so close minded???????????</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I have a friend at school who has a disability (I don't know what it is) and he is in a wheelchair and he's being going out with this girl for about a year and everything was fine, I think, and she dumped him. Her reason to him? Because he has a disability and it was pointless because of that. I mean what? Is it pointless when they first got together? Surely not as she wouldn't have stayed with him. I simply don't get it if that's the only reason they split. And that has annoyed me, a lame excuse. In my opinion it doesn't even add up. I really don't know why what how. But it's not right at all.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Sorry it's a bit short</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">Byeeeeeeeeee</span></span>Ruthiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03457029153494700284noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819689442459464032.post-5219841559953547612016-01-23T16:01:00.003+00:002016-01-23T16:01:55.419+00:00Language<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12.8px;">Hi,</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #222222;"><span style="font-size: 12.8px;">Recently I've been reading in to ableist slurs/language and how it ends up in everyday conversations. It really struck me about how naive I've been when a. using this language myself and b. not realising when others are using it either towards me or others in the disabled community. it has been surreally eye opening for me to learn about this so I thought I would give you guys some of the key information I've learnt.</span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Please understand that most of the language that I'm about to use may not be classed as slurs but as ableist. You are not an automatic evil/horrible/anti disabled type of person if you use this language as a one off, it's when you,direct it to someone or use it when you fully understand the under laying meaning and, use it constantly:that's when you are classed as the list above. But it's worthwhile if you do intend to change the language you use every day life.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The saddest thing Is language is a powerful tool of oppression towards the disabled community. For those, me likewise, who are going to try and change the language they use, we can uncover the way we abuse the slurs into some sort of sick joke<b style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">important note</b><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">: Many people who identify with particular disabilities or disability in general may use words from this list in an act of reclaiming the language. You may well too! BUT if you do not identify with a particular disability/disabled identity, be sure that the person you are with don't mind you using the terms as some may take personal offence to it and that's no good. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Confined to a wheelchair</b><br />Refers to people with physical or mobility disabilities.<br /><br /><b>Crazy </b><br />Refers to people with mental or psychiatric disabilities/distress.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> <b>Derp </b><br />Refers to people with intellectual disabilities</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>Differently abled</b><br />Can refer to any person with a disability. (Come on! No need to sugar coat it! we all know we are disabled. Why not say that?)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>Handicap(ped)</b><br />Refers to people with physical or mobility disabilities. (Stop focusing on people's physical look their mind is so much better)</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Imbecile</b><br />Refers to people with intellectual disabilities.<br /><br /><b>Insane </b>or <b>Insanity</b><br />Refers to people with mental or psychiatric disabilities. (This one bugs me)</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Lame</b><br />Refers to people with physical or mobility disabilities</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Mental/Mental Case</b><br />Refers to people with mental or psychiatric disabilities. (No, the gig you went to wasn't 'mental')</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>Retard(ed)/[anything]-tard</b><br />Refers to people with intellectual disabilities. (This hurts)</span></span></div>
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<b style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Spaz(zed)</span></b></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Refers to people with cerebral palsy or similar neurological disabilities. (Ugh)<br /><br /><b>Specially Abled</b><br />Can refer to any person with a disability. (Again why sugar coat it?)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> </span><b style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Special Needs</b></span></div>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); color: #222222; font-size: 12.8px;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Usually refers to people with learning, intellectual, or developmental disabilities, but can mean any person with a disability. (....don't even get me started.........)</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Suffers from </b><b>____</b><br />Can refer to any person with a disability. (We live with,not suffer)</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b><u><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Non ableist</span></u></b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>Instead of the ableist terms when talking about a non disabled person you could mean to say</b> </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> Boring</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Disgusting</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Evil</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Horrible</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Incomprehensible<br />Inconsiderate<br />Inconsistent<br />Infuriating<br />Insensible<br />Irrational</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>For describing people with disabilities/disabled people in general:</b><br />Disabled<br />Has a disability<br />With a disability<br />With a chronic health condition<br />Has a chronic health condition</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Neurodivergent ( is the diversity of human brains and minds-used to describe people who are on the autism spectrum )</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Neurotypical(opposite of </span>Neurodivergent)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I hope this gives you an idea into how you can change the way you speak in order to be more inclusive and non offensive. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Byeeeeeee</span></div>
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